My poem for you :D

Hey all,
Its me again :P and I am in kind of  mixed mood but I know most of you who read my blog would have known by now that I love love stories and love those kind of movies and romantic novels etc and I write poems on emotional kind of topics but I want to share this poem with you, I think its my best work and its a 100 line poem ! Long I know :P
    This poem is titled "Was that friendship? Or was that Love?". When I used to sit down and think about how people fell in love I would think of friends becoming best friends and then falling in love and those who are still confused. It is most commonly said that a boy and girl can never be best friends and this might be true or not but in most cases one of them ends up having feelings for the other. So this poem is dedicated to those who are confused and I hope after reading this poem you will surely realize your true feelings. This poem is basically a conversation between two best friends the pink lines are the girl's line, the blue lines are the boy's lines and the red lines are the lines both of them are saying :D
And yes I am not writing the whole poem altogether because it is long and besides there should be some suspense. :P

Was that friendship? Or was that Love?
That everything rose right above.
A space you created in my heart, 
Our friendship could never fall apart.
Walking together and holding each other's hands,
Me talking any other guy you can't stand.
We love talking and being together,
Even though we completely differ.
You never mind me talking on and on,
And never ever yawn.
I feel incomplete without you,
And I know you feel the same, that is true.
You are so good at everything, 
Just like my prince charming.
My heart you have stolen,
Like you there is no one.

So yeah this is it for today but i will continue the poem tomorrow :) and if you feel any of these for your best friend, you just might get to know the truth :P

Keep Smiling and keep writing and commenting
Surabhi :)

Opportunities

Hey all,
I am really sorry for not writing since a long time and couldn't even wish you all HAPPY NEW YEAR.......may your new year go as fantastic and fun as ever......soo its been a really long time and I hope you all are fine and crackalackin :P 
So today's topic is opportunities, and I am going to try and figure out do opportunities always come once? 
hmmmm.....we have always heard that opportunities always come once and you should grab each and every one of it....but i think that if you do get various opportunities you must be clear in your mind first, whether to take it or leave it..also, you must remember that you can't be good at everything and you can't have everything in the world, so leave something for others too...also you may get many options and you could pick any one of them so try and choose not only the best but something you haven't done before...also don't make the mistake of taking all so that you can't manage and you tend to lose out on other things such as studies, fun and your life...we say that we need to keep a balance in nature so there should be a balance in our life also....a mix of everything :) 
Opportunities may also come only once so if you don't have something up your sleeve, try and take the challenge, you will feel fresh and there will be a change in your attitude and life. Also taking part in various competitions can help enhance your communication skills and give you exposure which prepares you for stuff you will do when you grow up.
So my advice is that you take the ride even if it is bumpy, it will surely be entertaining and fun :)


Give it a thought:
If you want to make sure or realize who is special in your life, then try and stay without that person for one week, if you succeed then that person is ordinary but if you can't then that person is very special....try it out, it works :D 

Give it a thought:
Past is experience, Present is experiment and Future is expectation...so use your experience in your experiments to achieve you expectations....
Surabhi

Priorities..

Hey all,
I know I am writing after a long time but I think today's topic is really very important and essential for every teen..
Priorities...Yes ! We as different individuals have different perspectives and different thinking but a person has to get their priorities straight.Sometimes you may think that your priorities are different from your peers but don't forget you are different as individuals so naturally your priorities will be different from them.Everyone is unique and has a different kind of thinking.
Basically setting your priorities is not really an easy job but still right now is the right time when we set our them and if we don't set them straight it will get complicated in the near future. Setting your priorities in simple language means that you are basically listing your necessities in the most important order and the one at the top has most importance...but how to figure out your priorities and how to list them is the job.
STEP 1: List down all those things which are really very close to your heart
STEP 2: Try and put stars to the most important things in your life.
Okay so I took this psychology test and I guess my answers were quite accurate and I got my priorities straight to an extent. Just answer 1 simple question...
Q: Just put these animals in order
1. Cow
2. Sheep
3. Pig
4. Horse
5. Tiger




After you have done just check out the results:
Cow= family
Sheep= love
Pig= money
Horse= career and job
Tiger= Pride

So now I do believe you got your priorities straight
Thats it for now

Keep Smiling
Surabhi :D

Problems...

Hey all,
I know no posts since a very long time..but I have been busy and guess what I'm 15 now :P I turned 15 this 7th of November and I had an amazing time at school on 8th November :D celebrating with all my friends and having a great time and realizing loads of things.... :D
So I an really sorry for no posts......
Today's post is on Problems...in this span of time I realized a few things a learnt a lot...at certain points in life you may feel you are that one person who has so many problems and is only one suffering from the problems of the world but you do really need to understand that you are really not the only one. There are many more people who have issues in their life, and graver problems than you actually do or even think of.....So just try and remember one thing that if you are having problems from which you can't get your mind out of then don't worry there are definitely solutions to them....because remember to every problem there is a solution...just find the reason behind the problem and you will surely find the solution.
If you are having family problems, and your family is suffering at this age such as mine, just try and focus on your studies. I know it really be difficult be just try and distract yourself and share your problems with your parents and your best friends, because they will always help you and think for your good :D
And if you have any other problem and want solutions, you can also contact me, just write a comment, or e-mail me at surabhi7rp2@gmail.com and remember i wont share your problems :D

Also if you do read me blog, please follow this blog so that I know that you actually like it and I can write more, and if you do like this blog, please spread the word around to your friends :D

Surabhi
Keep Smiling

Mausam..

Hey all, 
I know it has been a really long time since I wrote something. But today's post is really very special. It's actually a review on a movie I saw and since I have seen it I'm in love with it. Its a bollywood movie called "Mausam" . Mausam means seasons and this movie basically depicts the seasons and various stages of love between a girl and a boy. In this movie the main protagonists are of different backgrounds. This story is about two lovers named Harry and Aayat. 
The first stage:
Harry and Aayat first meet as mere adolescents and they develop feelings for eachother. Harry, a fun filled Punjabi boy of a village in Punjab, starts liking Aayat a Kashmiri girl when she comes to his village.
The second stage:
Due to reasons they separate and after 7 years they meet eachother in Scotland and this is where their liking develops into true and inseparable love. 
The Third Stage:
The stage where they separate again and realize that they love eachother to such an extent that they cannot be separated and cannot live without eachother.
The Fourth Stage:
This is where they finally meet, fighting through odds...


All I can say is that this is destiny...
And I would definitely recommend for you to watch this movie...
The title especially is very beautiful and the depiction of scenes is very beautiful and different. It isn't the same love story but very unique, heart throbbing and a must watch.....


Give it a thought:
Excessiveness of everything leads to nothing but devastation...

express...

Hey all 
EXPRESS YOURSELF !! let the other person know what you think about him/her..if you don't tell the person, the person will only misinterpret and there will be a creation of misunderstandings...show the person you care, you love and you want to be an important part of the person's life...unless and until you don't tell the person won't know anything because nobody has the power to read minds.....so EXPRESS YOURSELF AND YOUR EMOTIONS............and gather that COURAGE ! 


SUrabhi

its important....

Hey all, 
Sometimes in life, you have certain relations and those relations can be good, bad, strong, weak, healthy, annoying or everlasting. We humans make mistakes, and we tend to confuse these relations with the above adjectives...what you thought doesn't always turn out to be what you thought. 


Relations are like rubber bands, you keep stretching and one day they will break....stretching here could symbolically represent pushing the other, fighting with the other too much or anything for that matter which is happening excessively and just as smoking is injurious to health, this excessive pushing, fighting, misunderstandings could lead to problems in the relation or even the relation not staying....and it wil reach a dead end....this relation is also applied on friendship...

Give it a thought:
A girl's heart is like glass, you throw small stones from less distance, it doesn't affect the glass, only gives scratches, but if you throw a bigger stone from a distance, then ultimately the glass breaks....

Solutions..

Hey all,

Sometimes you feel happy and then suddenly your mood changes and you start feeling sad and our mood keeps changing....these constant changes are called mood swings and all teens experience this....ever tried to wonder why our mood changes so frequently in the weirdest of situations. Well the answer to this is that every teen reacts differently towards every situation..just like everyone has different thoughts and different ways of expressing yourself.One aspect of our constant changing mood is this:


Dealing with constant change and pressure is part of the answer. Maybe you're starting a new school and not able to see old friends as much. Getting good grades or wanting to be better in sports or other activities can be a concern for many teens. It might feel as though there just isn't enough time to do everything.


there might be various other reasons for this constant changing mood but, the one above is the most obvious and common one. 


To get over depression and sadness here are 5 fantastic ways:
1.Try exercising
2.Try eating chocolate or something that you love eating
3.Try to identify why you are feeling this way and fix it by talking out 
4.Try and express yourself...try writing a story, poem or just your everyday diary with your feelings in it.
5.Try to be optimistic and think positive because only if you think positive you be positive :D


Surabhi :)

Change...

Hey all, 
Accepting something you haven't expected in your wildest dreams is not an easy job..because you never hoped for it to happen in the first place. And its normal, but the challenge is to accept it, it will take time but never the less if it has happened then learn to accept it and move on. Acceptance is the key to most important decisions and acceptance and rejection is a very major and important part of life....and that is called change!

Sometimes, in our lives we experience change and at the teen stage it is quite common to be confused as to what  change is right or wrong, or why that change is happening and if it is happening then is it good or bad ! At times you feel that everything has changed and it is never like it was before, people have changed, you have made new friends and this new environment is completely different compared to what is was before, but I guess its like, as we grow we change , our taste changes, our choices change, our friend circle changes, and moreover our interests change, but that is change is common with everyone and every teen is a part of it and sometimes that change proves to be very useful and helpful. But the question is how to decide whether the change is good or bad and is it right or wrong.... 
After a lot of brainstorming :P... I think the one and only way to identify it, firstly you need to identify the change in yourself and your environment before you can decide if the change is good or bad.
After you have decided and identified the change then just TRY and imagine your life, before that change came into being...............and after you have imagined your life without the change, TRY and imagine your life with that change. 
After imagining both....try and analyse....think whether your life with the change was better or without the change is better and you will automatically know whether the change is good or bad...
TRY it out 
It will work....


Surabhi...

Figuring Yourself Out...

Hey all,
I know 2 posts a day but I really feel like writing today and I also have a holiday and I haven't really talked to any of my friends since everyone is so busy...so I thought I should write..
Have you ever had trouble figuring yourself out? Well, if you are a teen then I am sure you must be going through this just like me or any ordinary teenager :P
And it may just seem so irritating and boring and you may feel helpless but hey all you teens, it happens with every other teen and truth to be told me too! Figuring yourself out could be what you like or what you want or what you should like or whom do you like...and today I will try and answer as to how we all are going to do this.
To figure out what you like to do, try doing something which is extremely common for today's teens, which is filling in a slam book, or answering just some basic questions on your personality, for eg:
What is your favourite colour, what do you like to eat, what is you favourite hobby, what do you like to do in your free time, who is you favourite actor/actress or what is your favourite sport, who are your best friends who is your favourite subject, who is your bestestestest friend forever i.e., the one you never want to lose and to make it more fun take out pics and make a collage and keep it as your wallpaper for few days
well, these are only some basic question there are many more to go...
To figure out what you want, first see what you like and from that what do you really have and what all do you thing is missing? that's one of the best ways...
To figure out what you should like, you should really know how to differentiate between what is right and what is wrong and that is when you decide what you do next...
To decide whom you like, well no one can decide that because as I said earlier no one can control feelings, be it theirs or others and one thing I can definitely tell you with full confidence that you must have a very strong and trustworthy friendship with that person and if you are confused about this then ask one of your friends to notice your behaviour in front of that person you think you like and you will soon get a confirmation if your friend says you are not you in front of the person.

Figuring yourself out is not something that happens in a click, it will take time but for you to know yourself you should start now because the sooner you begin the more you will explore...
And if you still persist any queries then you can just e-mail me at surabhi7rp2@gmail.com or just comment and to keep your privacy, change your name and don't worry I won't tell anyone :P

I wanted to just say something, I also haven't fully figured out myself and I am still trying but all the advice I give works and if it doesn't please let me know..
Surabhi

Decisions part 2

Hey all, 
Yup, today's topic is decisions..I know what you are thinking that I have already written a long and lengthy post on decisions but this post is just another sequel. Firstly I want all those of you who like happy ending movies and love love stories to watch the movie "a cinderella story" if you haven't watched it...its an old movie but its definitely a must watch :P and the songs are just superbly fantastic and fabulously amazing.... :P

Yeah, coming back to decisions, my earlier post gave you a good message on decisions and briefed you up well perhaps, but this post is just based on a little more elaboration :P 
Sometimes in life when we make our decisions, whatever decision it may be and whatever kind of decision it may be, we must be sure that those decisions shouldn't be such that they cause you to break your decision. Only promise yourself about making the decisions if you are ready to take on the challenge of carrying them out and that you won't leave them in between. And since we all know that just as one path leads to another path, one decision leads to several other decisions which we might have to take considering the circumstances. So while dealing with an issue and making its decisions you must make sure your decision is right, because it shouldn't be that you made the wrong choice and because of that one choice you made, you have to suffer all your life. The solution to stop this from happening is that before taking a decision make sure that what you are doing is right and if you want you could consult your parents or your "true" best friends because they would never want what is wrong for you...trust me !
Taking decisions for someone, is not something I would recommend because, every person should know what is best for them and unless a person makes mistakes a person can never learn...but those mistakes shouldn't cause devastation or destruction so this is when you need to take advice.
Taking a decision with someone could also be done provided that someone supports your decision because no one wants to be forced, just like no one wants to get into forced friendship or forced relationship. 
Taking a decision for you which includes people should not really be against the people, it could affect them but it should not harm them, they could probably hurt them but only if the decision is very essential. 
Taking a decision for someone you know, like or love can also be taken again provided that the person is comfortable with your decision and if you want to surprise that person then please go ahead, but try as much as you can to take decisions positively for people and for yourself.....

Realization...

Hey all, 
Sometimes there are things in front of us and we look at them but we don't really see them and they turn out to be exactly what you were finding in the first place. We may not see it at first but when we get clues, or any signs related to what we are trying to find, pointing at something particular that is when you have to realize and believe its true and that is exactly what I have been looking for. Dear friend, that is for you to realize, no one can do that for.The only help you can get is from your friends, if they same the same thing about what you might still not be sure or another help could be signs that you could relate to....that is when you have to realize that THIS IS IT! and all this search has finally come to an end..
This also isn't necessary that it has to be a search, it could only be signs appearing in front of you pointing at something. Or as I have said before you can term them as coincidences but to make yourself sure and believe you call them signs which are actually in fact coincidences in the first place that turn into signs. 
When one person says something, we don't really believe it but when many people say the same thing it actually means something...
So, if are confused about something or someone in particular...my best advice to you is talk it out with your friend of the same gender of yours..it helps and watch out for the signs...it shouldn't be that God has already started giving you signs but you are not seeing them...

Give it a thought:
I have already written one in the article above..its highlighted in white colour :P

Keep thinking, Keep realizing and Keep smiling because remember its never too late to think, realize or smile :D

And also, if you like my posts continue to read them and comment on them, if you do read my blog everyday then please let me know by becoming a member..

Thank You 
Surabhi 

For You

Hey all,
Another poem for someone....for you...

Whenever I think of you I smile,
The distance between us is almost a mile.
You have always made me laugh,
This short poem is on my behalf.
Our friendship was so strong,
Nothing between us ever went wrong.
We sat together in class,
Talking together was our favourite time pass.
You always selected me in your team,
Never let me lower my self esteem.
Drama rehersals were amazing,
And how can I forget playing on that swing.
Everything just completely finished,
And the fault was mine
But it was unavoidable for me
I couldn't help it, I had to go..
I never forgot you because you never forgot me,
And after so many years now,
I don't know where you are,
But i'm sure you're the bright-shiny star

Surabhi :)

Jealousy..

Hey all,
Yes, today's topic is jealousy...well I am sure that we all have felt jealous in our life once at least....ever wondered why you feel jealous? hmmm...in simple words we feel jealous because we don't get what others get or we see what we don't want to see..happens right in front of our eyes, someone you strongly dislike...jealousy can actually be positive and negative but this is what you have to decide, which is positive and which is negative..consequences of jealousy could be anger, frustration, irritation but there is a major difference between jealousy and envy....and as you all know, jealousy is also associated with the colour green. but green isn't a bad colour...:P ....so try to be positively jealous and even if you are negatively jealous then just think about it this way...that person may be better at you in something but you may be better at something else at which that person is not..and if you really want to be better at that thing then improve yourself but don't change yourself, because i have now understood that everyone is unique and improving yourself is a good thing but not changing yourself, because you are what you are....jealousy can also be related to possessiveness..

Give it a thought:
Jealousy is a very strong emotion, so try and stay away from it but not being jealous is also not a good sign....so be positively jealous...

You were nothing but a coward.....

Hey all,
I have been really depressed because of my marks but I am trying to get over it and I will improve...something really weird happened with me today, which shook me up completely but it turned out all rubbish and fake and that I was stupid enough to believe it in the first place. I realized that out of a hundred only 2 people will always be there for you. Also I learned that never always believe what you hear and see from your own eyes even if it is a fantasy and like a dream come true don't always believe it...In my case, I really don't know what it was but I was completely shaken, and then I myself was blamed for all of it..so the bottom line is don't trust anybody and everybody...The better we try and do for people the least respect you get in return...So guys think about this...

Give it a thought:
Don't trust anybody and don't trust everybody....

Decisions....

Sometimes in life, you have to make certain decisions and those decisions may be so difficult to take that before taking them you have to think about it several times. Those decisions may be so against your heart but you still have to take them for you...those decisions are always taken from the mind they are always taken decisively thinking that it will surely hurt at first but will be better for future...and sometimes they affect so many relations that you have had in the past or maybe you have in the present..but making a choice between your heart and mind and finally taking those decisions is a real tough job..We feel those decisions will strengthen us and will help us, but sometimes these decision weaken us...and when your decision stands in front of your heart it just tries to weaken you.. those decisions are taken when we keep a stone on our heart and listen to our mind. I myself am a kind of person who believes in always listening to your heart but sometimes I feel that if I take decisions from my heart then not taking a few of those decisions won't do anything but hurt me and will cause me pain...it isn't only about me...I believe this happens with almost everyone where you need to take decisions from you mind...maybe for your family or your friends and most importantly for YOU !

The worst part is when, you take the decision and are not able to follow it or carry it out because that decision whom you have taken against just weakens you but to stop that from happening just try and keep reminding yourself of those decisions and its consequences if you don't follow it....

 Every decision making process produces a final choice. The output can be an action or an opinion of choice.

The product can be an action or opinion of choice but sometimes we have to keep a stone of our heart and carry on with the decisions you have taken....

Give it a thought:

The best way to think over a decision is to stand under the shower or to lie on your bed.....(it always works for me)

Poem..

Hey all,
This is just a sequel to the poem I wrote earlier....

We became friends again,
But my trust you need to regain.
Should I forgive your mistake and you,
Oh God! Just give me a clue,
Wish it was all normal,
I think we both learnt an important moral.
I am not as intelligent as you,
Just a small drop of morning dew.
Will our "so called friendship" last?
Or remain unforgiven past?
Your mistake was not small,
Because it hurt me a lot.
I try to forget it but I just can't,
The confusion in my head is growing like a plant.
You need to win my heart
Without which we cannot have a fresh start.
Now its all up to you 
Please just think this through....

random...

Give it a thought:
Co-operation is essential but excess of co-operation lessens your importance....

PIC....CLICK

Hey all,
I 'm sure everyone listen's to songs and sometimes songs are so right that they absolutely and correctly describe you position especially when you are sad, hurt, confused or even depressed....
The weather has been awesome the whole day and I'm loving it :P
I actually too a few pictures and want to share one of them. It of the sky and I every time I see this picture it interprets a different meaning. Its the picture of the sky but it just seems unusual and deep whenever I try and reason out the picture...

Those white things are clouds...the picture isn't very clear but simply looking at it makes me realize that the sky is so calm, so beautiful and so serene.....its so DEEP....
Well "deep" reminds me that I have often emphasized that relations such as friendship and love and deep but this picture could symbolize anything deep. For, eg. for me it symbolizes my friendship with my dear friends and the thought of them being with me...
So take a look at this picture and check out what it symbolizes for you

Give it a Thought:
The change in weather also changes you mood.....