Misunderstandings

HEY ALL !!!
I am in a totally rocking mood and I haven't felt this good in a really very long timeeeee.....I have been smiling since morning and now its midnight and I am still smiling :)) I couldn't have been this happier :D And you won't believe it, nothing has happened...literally nothing but I am feeling soooooo glad and I just can't express this feeling....listening to happy songs, watching videos and enjoying myself, I mean I really feel contended ! Okay, I am a person who talks a lot and stuff, but I haven't talked as much as I do since morning....
So yeah, enough of me and my mood, hope you all are liking my posts, I mean I am writing frequently and today's topic is Misunderstandings! Yes 1 really very important topic that I want to discuss, which tends to become the problem in most or our lives, and in all kinds of relationships....be it family, friends or special people in our life...we all have misunderstandings with them and many times we don't even realize that we misunderstand things which complicates others lives and mostly our own life !!! So I wanna really tell you all that if you are confused or feel that there is a misunderstanding between you and someone, clear it out as soon as possible :) It will be better for you. Now many times the person is not willing to listen so then in that case you could really write a small note expressing your feelings and what you think, what the problem was and also that you want peace! Many times this could also lead to violence (slap (thappad vagera) ) and this will be really very difficult to accept insults like this....and in that case all you could do is that blow with the wind or come clean and apologize :D That is the best way but only if you are right; but if you are wrong then in the end you will be feeling really guilty...

The better option is that you shouldn't let these misunderstandings occur....and one way to get rid of them is don't lie and just be yourself...I guess that should do the deal :)  

Give it a thought:

In the above pic :)

Song of the day: 

School ke din- Movie: Always kabhi kabhi 

 Youtube Link:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ucxpbiankA

Fact for the day:

Shakespeare invented the words "assassination" and "bump" 

Crying?

"Crying is not a solution for anything! Stop Crying !" This is something we often hear, and it really pesters the person who is crying...this line forced me to think why we cry and why do people stop us from crying?? Infact I believe that crying actually helps me...it lets me take out all my emotions at once...in simple words we cry because when something or someone hurts the heart tears come in our eyes and we cry ! The reason why people stop us from crying is that when we cry, our eyes grow weaker, pale and dull...we become sad and depressed which affects our health....but from an emotional point of view crying is also essential because you cannot take out those emotions that you can take out if you cry ! It makes you feel light and although it has more bad effects than the good ones crying once in a while is normal....Not crying at all is also bad and crying all the time is even worse because that means you are not emotionally strong...and if you often cry alot you need help, be it your parents, best friend or someone else...If you don;t cry at all, either you don't want to see reality or you accept your life exactly the way it is that means you are not affected by it.

Give it a Thought:
Crying lets your emotions flow...


Song of the day:
Rasputin- By:  Boney M 
Youtube Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D6P_nitWCRc


Fact for the Day:(NEW !)
"Underground" is the only word in the English language that begins and ends with the letters "und." 

Choose your words wisely..

Hey all,

Hope you're doing fine because I am doing fair...holidays have begun and there is so much to do....and time is less :P In any case, today's topic is choosing our words wisely and its something very important...I just want to tell you all that...everyday we say stuff and especially people like me say so many things in a day to different people at different events....but one thing must be made sure that what we say should actually be meant....I mean to say that we should try and avoid saying things we don't want to say or things that shouldn't be said because these things that you may say casually or in anger or in any extreme emotion could leave a deep mark on peoples feelings and I have repeatedly said that everyone's feelings are equally important as yours and you don't have the right to hurt anyone....ofcourse this could happen unintentionally but its better if its avoided...so think about what you say, and if you really mean it you could change the way of saying it so that a person does not get hurt..and is not disturbed bu your comments...

Keep Smiling and Keep thinking 

Also you could write to me at surabhi_rp2@gmail.com for any queries or advice...and you can subscribe to my blog, just write you e-mail on the subscription bar and you willl get all posts on e-mail...and its FREE :P .

Thought For The Day:

Sometimes it takes a good fall to really know where you stand ! 

Song of the day:

Rigga-Ding-Dong By: cherona 

Youtube Link:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3f43xmRqxOM&ob=av3n

Forgive and Forget

Hey all,
I'm back and today's topic is forgive and forget...you know what I just realized that if you ever want to be happy in your life you must learn to forgive and forget, which basically means that you need to forget your past, all the mistakes that you have made and the problems that have happened with you need to be forgotten and only then will you be satisfied. You must also learn to let other people forget. for instance, if you and your friend had a quarrel over something...and your friend might want to forget it, but you keep bringing it up....this just turns your friendship sour....and eventually it will turn bitter....so if you want the person to forget the you yourself must forget it...
Forgiving...one word that can just your change your mood instantly...haven't you ever felt open when you sorry and the person forgives you...isn't the feeling incredible...you feel so light and relaxed....Same way if you forgive a person who apologizes to you, you feel calm...remember one thing saying sorry doesn't mean that it was your fault...it only means that you value your relationship with the person more...Similarly forgiving someone for doing wrong means that no matter what the person has done you like person for his courage and acceptance...
So I would like you all to think it over and just chill chill just chill :P 
And yes I am also introducing a  section called song of the day which will be basically describing my mood , it will be a good song :P 


Give it a thought:
Forgetting things and forgiving people go hand in hand...

Song of the day:
Right Round Right Round --by FloRida ft. Kesha (its an amazing song) 
Youtube Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=li3zdZ9FmY0


Surabhi :)