Priorities..

Hey all,
I know I am writing after a long time but I think today's topic is really very important and essential for every teen..
Priorities...Yes ! We as different individuals have different perspectives and different thinking but a person has to get their priorities straight.Sometimes you may think that your priorities are different from your peers but don't forget you are different as individuals so naturally your priorities will be different from them.Everyone is unique and has a different kind of thinking.
Basically setting your priorities is not really an easy job but still right now is the right time when we set our them and if we don't set them straight it will get complicated in the near future. Setting your priorities in simple language means that you are basically listing your necessities in the most important order and the one at the top has most importance...but how to figure out your priorities and how to list them is the job.
STEP 1: List down all those things which are really very close to your heart
STEP 2: Try and put stars to the most important things in your life.
Okay so I took this psychology test and I guess my answers were quite accurate and I got my priorities straight to an extent. Just answer 1 simple question...
Q: Just put these animals in order
1. Cow
2. Sheep
3. Pig
4. Horse
5. Tiger




After you have done just check out the results:
Cow= family
Sheep= love
Pig= money
Horse= career and job
Tiger= Pride

So now I do believe you got your priorities straight
Thats it for now

Keep Smiling
Surabhi :D

Problems...

Hey all,
I know no posts since a very long time..but I have been busy and guess what I'm 15 now :P I turned 15 this 7th of November and I had an amazing time at school on 8th November :D celebrating with all my friends and having a great time and realizing loads of things.... :D
So I an really sorry for no posts......
Today's post is on Problems...in this span of time I realized a few things a learnt a lot...at certain points in life you may feel you are that one person who has so many problems and is only one suffering from the problems of the world but you do really need to understand that you are really not the only one. There are many more people who have issues in their life, and graver problems than you actually do or even think of.....So just try and remember one thing that if you are having problems from which you can't get your mind out of then don't worry there are definitely solutions to them....because remember to every problem there is a solution...just find the reason behind the problem and you will surely find the solution.
If you are having family problems, and your family is suffering at this age such as mine, just try and focus on your studies. I know it really be difficult be just try and distract yourself and share your problems with your parents and your best friends, because they will always help you and think for your good :D
And if you have any other problem and want solutions, you can also contact me, just write a comment, or e-mail me at surabhi7rp2@gmail.com and remember i wont share your problems :D

Also if you do read me blog, please follow this blog so that I know that you actually like it and I can write more, and if you do like this blog, please spread the word around to your friends :D

Surabhi
Keep Smiling

Mausam..

Hey all, 
I know it has been a really long time since I wrote something. But today's post is really very special. It's actually a review on a movie I saw and since I have seen it I'm in love with it. Its a bollywood movie called "Mausam" . Mausam means seasons and this movie basically depicts the seasons and various stages of love between a girl and a boy. In this movie the main protagonists are of different backgrounds. This story is about two lovers named Harry and Aayat. 
The first stage:
Harry and Aayat first meet as mere adolescents and they develop feelings for eachother. Harry, a fun filled Punjabi boy of a village in Punjab, starts liking Aayat a Kashmiri girl when she comes to his village.
The second stage:
Due to reasons they separate and after 7 years they meet eachother in Scotland and this is where their liking develops into true and inseparable love. 
The Third Stage:
The stage where they separate again and realize that they love eachother to such an extent that they cannot be separated and cannot live without eachother.
The Fourth Stage:
This is where they finally meet, fighting through odds...


All I can say is that this is destiny...
And I would definitely recommend for you to watch this movie...
The title especially is very beautiful and the depiction of scenes is very beautiful and different. It isn't the same love story but very unique, heart throbbing and a must watch.....


Give it a thought:
Excessiveness of everything leads to nothing but devastation...

express...

Hey all 
EXPRESS YOURSELF !! let the other person know what you think about him/her..if you don't tell the person, the person will only misinterpret and there will be a creation of misunderstandings...show the person you care, you love and you want to be an important part of the person's life...unless and until you don't tell the person won't know anything because nobody has the power to read minds.....so EXPRESS YOURSELF AND YOUR EMOTIONS............and gather that COURAGE ! 


SUrabhi

its important....

Hey all, 
Sometimes in life, you have certain relations and those relations can be good, bad, strong, weak, healthy, annoying or everlasting. We humans make mistakes, and we tend to confuse these relations with the above adjectives...what you thought doesn't always turn out to be what you thought. 


Relations are like rubber bands, you keep stretching and one day they will break....stretching here could symbolically represent pushing the other, fighting with the other too much or anything for that matter which is happening excessively and just as smoking is injurious to health, this excessive pushing, fighting, misunderstandings could lead to problems in the relation or even the relation not staying....and it wil reach a dead end....this relation is also applied on friendship...

Give it a thought:
A girl's heart is like glass, you throw small stones from less distance, it doesn't affect the glass, only gives scratches, but if you throw a bigger stone from a distance, then ultimately the glass breaks....

Solutions..

Hey all,

Sometimes you feel happy and then suddenly your mood changes and you start feeling sad and our mood keeps changing....these constant changes are called mood swings and all teens experience this....ever tried to wonder why our mood changes so frequently in the weirdest of situations. Well the answer to this is that every teen reacts differently towards every situation..just like everyone has different thoughts and different ways of expressing yourself.One aspect of our constant changing mood is this:


Dealing with constant change and pressure is part of the answer. Maybe you're starting a new school and not able to see old friends as much. Getting good grades or wanting to be better in sports or other activities can be a concern for many teens. It might feel as though there just isn't enough time to do everything.


there might be various other reasons for this constant changing mood but, the one above is the most obvious and common one. 


To get over depression and sadness here are 5 fantastic ways:
1.Try exercising
2.Try eating chocolate or something that you love eating
3.Try to identify why you are feeling this way and fix it by talking out 
4.Try and express yourself...try writing a story, poem or just your everyday diary with your feelings in it.
5.Try to be optimistic and think positive because only if you think positive you be positive :D


Surabhi :)

Change...

Hey all, 
Accepting something you haven't expected in your wildest dreams is not an easy job..because you never hoped for it to happen in the first place. And its normal, but the challenge is to accept it, it will take time but never the less if it has happened then learn to accept it and move on. Acceptance is the key to most important decisions and acceptance and rejection is a very major and important part of life....and that is called change!

Sometimes, in our lives we experience change and at the teen stage it is quite common to be confused as to what  change is right or wrong, or why that change is happening and if it is happening then is it good or bad ! At times you feel that everything has changed and it is never like it was before, people have changed, you have made new friends and this new environment is completely different compared to what is was before, but I guess its like, as we grow we change , our taste changes, our choices change, our friend circle changes, and moreover our interests change, but that is change is common with everyone and every teen is a part of it and sometimes that change proves to be very useful and helpful. But the question is how to decide whether the change is good or bad and is it right or wrong.... 
After a lot of brainstorming :P... I think the one and only way to identify it, firstly you need to identify the change in yourself and your environment before you can decide if the change is good or bad.
After you have decided and identified the change then just TRY and imagine your life, before that change came into being...............and after you have imagined your life without the change, TRY and imagine your life with that change. 
After imagining both....try and analyse....think whether your life with the change was better or without the change is better and you will automatically know whether the change is good or bad...
TRY it out 
It will work....


Surabhi...

Figuring Yourself Out...

Hey all,
I know 2 posts a day but I really feel like writing today and I also have a holiday and I haven't really talked to any of my friends since everyone is so busy...so I thought I should write..
Have you ever had trouble figuring yourself out? Well, if you are a teen then I am sure you must be going through this just like me or any ordinary teenager :P
And it may just seem so irritating and boring and you may feel helpless but hey all you teens, it happens with every other teen and truth to be told me too! Figuring yourself out could be what you like or what you want or what you should like or whom do you like...and today I will try and answer as to how we all are going to do this.
To figure out what you like to do, try doing something which is extremely common for today's teens, which is filling in a slam book, or answering just some basic questions on your personality, for eg:
What is your favourite colour, what do you like to eat, what is you favourite hobby, what do you like to do in your free time, who is you favourite actor/actress or what is your favourite sport, who are your best friends who is your favourite subject, who is your bestestestest friend forever i.e., the one you never want to lose and to make it more fun take out pics and make a collage and keep it as your wallpaper for few days
well, these are only some basic question there are many more to go...
To figure out what you want, first see what you like and from that what do you really have and what all do you thing is missing? that's one of the best ways...
To figure out what you should like, you should really know how to differentiate between what is right and what is wrong and that is when you decide what you do next...
To decide whom you like, well no one can decide that because as I said earlier no one can control feelings, be it theirs or others and one thing I can definitely tell you with full confidence that you must have a very strong and trustworthy friendship with that person and if you are confused about this then ask one of your friends to notice your behaviour in front of that person you think you like and you will soon get a confirmation if your friend says you are not you in front of the person.

Figuring yourself out is not something that happens in a click, it will take time but for you to know yourself you should start now because the sooner you begin the more you will explore...
And if you still persist any queries then you can just e-mail me at surabhi7rp2@gmail.com or just comment and to keep your privacy, change your name and don't worry I won't tell anyone :P

I wanted to just say something, I also haven't fully figured out myself and I am still trying but all the advice I give works and if it doesn't please let me know..
Surabhi

Decisions part 2

Hey all, 
Yup, today's topic is decisions..I know what you are thinking that I have already written a long and lengthy post on decisions but this post is just another sequel. Firstly I want all those of you who like happy ending movies and love love stories to watch the movie "a cinderella story" if you haven't watched it...its an old movie but its definitely a must watch :P and the songs are just superbly fantastic and fabulously amazing.... :P

Yeah, coming back to decisions, my earlier post gave you a good message on decisions and briefed you up well perhaps, but this post is just based on a little more elaboration :P 
Sometimes in life when we make our decisions, whatever decision it may be and whatever kind of decision it may be, we must be sure that those decisions shouldn't be such that they cause you to break your decision. Only promise yourself about making the decisions if you are ready to take on the challenge of carrying them out and that you won't leave them in between. And since we all know that just as one path leads to another path, one decision leads to several other decisions which we might have to take considering the circumstances. So while dealing with an issue and making its decisions you must make sure your decision is right, because it shouldn't be that you made the wrong choice and because of that one choice you made, you have to suffer all your life. The solution to stop this from happening is that before taking a decision make sure that what you are doing is right and if you want you could consult your parents or your "true" best friends because they would never want what is wrong for you...trust me !
Taking decisions for someone, is not something I would recommend because, every person should know what is best for them and unless a person makes mistakes a person can never learn...but those mistakes shouldn't cause devastation or destruction so this is when you need to take advice.
Taking a decision with someone could also be done provided that someone supports your decision because no one wants to be forced, just like no one wants to get into forced friendship or forced relationship. 
Taking a decision for you which includes people should not really be against the people, it could affect them but it should not harm them, they could probably hurt them but only if the decision is very essential. 
Taking a decision for someone you know, like or love can also be taken again provided that the person is comfortable with your decision and if you want to surprise that person then please go ahead, but try as much as you can to take decisions positively for people and for yourself.....

Realization...

Hey all, 
Sometimes there are things in front of us and we look at them but we don't really see them and they turn out to be exactly what you were finding in the first place. We may not see it at first but when we get clues, or any signs related to what we are trying to find, pointing at something particular that is when you have to realize and believe its true and that is exactly what I have been looking for. Dear friend, that is for you to realize, no one can do that for.The only help you can get is from your friends, if they same the same thing about what you might still not be sure or another help could be signs that you could relate to....that is when you have to realize that THIS IS IT! and all this search has finally come to an end..
This also isn't necessary that it has to be a search, it could only be signs appearing in front of you pointing at something. Or as I have said before you can term them as coincidences but to make yourself sure and believe you call them signs which are actually in fact coincidences in the first place that turn into signs. 
When one person says something, we don't really believe it but when many people say the same thing it actually means something...
So, if are confused about something or someone in particular...my best advice to you is talk it out with your friend of the same gender of yours..it helps and watch out for the signs...it shouldn't be that God has already started giving you signs but you are not seeing them...

Give it a thought:
I have already written one in the article above..its highlighted in white colour :P

Keep thinking, Keep realizing and Keep smiling because remember its never too late to think, realize or smile :D

And also, if you like my posts continue to read them and comment on them, if you do read my blog everyday then please let me know by becoming a member..

Thank You 
Surabhi 

For You

Hey all,
Another poem for someone....for you...

Whenever I think of you I smile,
The distance between us is almost a mile.
You have always made me laugh,
This short poem is on my behalf.
Our friendship was so strong,
Nothing between us ever went wrong.
We sat together in class,
Talking together was our favourite time pass.
You always selected me in your team,
Never let me lower my self esteem.
Drama rehersals were amazing,
And how can I forget playing on that swing.
Everything just completely finished,
And the fault was mine
But it was unavoidable for me
I couldn't help it, I had to go..
I never forgot you because you never forgot me,
And after so many years now,
I don't know where you are,
But i'm sure you're the bright-shiny star

Surabhi :)

Jealousy..

Hey all,
Yes, today's topic is jealousy...well I am sure that we all have felt jealous in our life once at least....ever wondered why you feel jealous? hmmm...in simple words we feel jealous because we don't get what others get or we see what we don't want to see..happens right in front of our eyes, someone you strongly dislike...jealousy can actually be positive and negative but this is what you have to decide, which is positive and which is negative..consequences of jealousy could be anger, frustration, irritation but there is a major difference between jealousy and envy....and as you all know, jealousy is also associated with the colour green. but green isn't a bad colour...:P ....so try to be positively jealous and even if you are negatively jealous then just think about it this way...that person may be better at you in something but you may be better at something else at which that person is not..and if you really want to be better at that thing then improve yourself but don't change yourself, because i have now understood that everyone is unique and improving yourself is a good thing but not changing yourself, because you are what you are....jealousy can also be related to possessiveness..

Give it a thought:
Jealousy is a very strong emotion, so try and stay away from it but not being jealous is also not a good sign....so be positively jealous...

You were nothing but a coward.....

Hey all,
I have been really depressed because of my marks but I am trying to get over it and I will improve...something really weird happened with me today, which shook me up completely but it turned out all rubbish and fake and that I was stupid enough to believe it in the first place. I realized that out of a hundred only 2 people will always be there for you. Also I learned that never always believe what you hear and see from your own eyes even if it is a fantasy and like a dream come true don't always believe it...In my case, I really don't know what it was but I was completely shaken, and then I myself was blamed for all of it..so the bottom line is don't trust anybody and everybody...The better we try and do for people the least respect you get in return...So guys think about this...

Give it a thought:
Don't trust anybody and don't trust everybody....

Decisions....

Sometimes in life, you have to make certain decisions and those decisions may be so difficult to take that before taking them you have to think about it several times. Those decisions may be so against your heart but you still have to take them for you...those decisions are always taken from the mind they are always taken decisively thinking that it will surely hurt at first but will be better for future...and sometimes they affect so many relations that you have had in the past or maybe you have in the present..but making a choice between your heart and mind and finally taking those decisions is a real tough job..We feel those decisions will strengthen us and will help us, but sometimes these decision weaken us...and when your decision stands in front of your heart it just tries to weaken you.. those decisions are taken when we keep a stone on our heart and listen to our mind. I myself am a kind of person who believes in always listening to your heart but sometimes I feel that if I take decisions from my heart then not taking a few of those decisions won't do anything but hurt me and will cause me pain...it isn't only about me...I believe this happens with almost everyone where you need to take decisions from you mind...maybe for your family or your friends and most importantly for YOU !

The worst part is when, you take the decision and are not able to follow it or carry it out because that decision whom you have taken against just weakens you but to stop that from happening just try and keep reminding yourself of those decisions and its consequences if you don't follow it....

 Every decision making process produces a final choice. The output can be an action or an opinion of choice.

The product can be an action or opinion of choice but sometimes we have to keep a stone of our heart and carry on with the decisions you have taken....

Give it a thought:

The best way to think over a decision is to stand under the shower or to lie on your bed.....(it always works for me)

Poem..

Hey all,
This is just a sequel to the poem I wrote earlier....

We became friends again,
But my trust you need to regain.
Should I forgive your mistake and you,
Oh God! Just give me a clue,
Wish it was all normal,
I think we both learnt an important moral.
I am not as intelligent as you,
Just a small drop of morning dew.
Will our "so called friendship" last?
Or remain unforgiven past?
Your mistake was not small,
Because it hurt me a lot.
I try to forget it but I just can't,
The confusion in my head is growing like a plant.
You need to win my heart
Without which we cannot have a fresh start.
Now its all up to you 
Please just think this through....

random...

Give it a thought:
Co-operation is essential but excess of co-operation lessens your importance....

PIC....CLICK

Hey all,
I 'm sure everyone listen's to songs and sometimes songs are so right that they absolutely and correctly describe you position especially when you are sad, hurt, confused or even depressed....
The weather has been awesome the whole day and I'm loving it :P
I actually too a few pictures and want to share one of them. It of the sky and I every time I see this picture it interprets a different meaning. Its the picture of the sky but it just seems unusual and deep whenever I try and reason out the picture...

Those white things are clouds...the picture isn't very clear but simply looking at it makes me realize that the sky is so calm, so beautiful and so serene.....its so DEEP....
Well "deep" reminds me that I have often emphasized that relations such as friendship and love and deep but this picture could symbolize anything deep. For, eg. for me it symbolizes my friendship with my dear friends and the thought of them being with me...
So take a look at this picture and check out what it symbolizes for you

Give it a Thought:
The change in weather also changes you mood.....

So Close yet...so far...

Hey all,
Sometimes in life, when we actually interact with people...we have so many connections..... also called friends :P But some of these connections are so deep that without them in your life, you feel incomplete and you literally can't imagine your life without them...but how can you actually identify these people...Just give it a thought, think about a particular person and try and imagine your life for one week without a person...and if you can't actually think try it out....If you are unable to imagine your life without him/her then that is that one special connection which will never break and will be with you always and forever...
Well sometimes those unbreakable connections are such that, you actually know that person and you feel that person is important but you don't really know the person's REAL importance...how without that person your life is incomplete....
So Give it a thought on those special friends of yours, think of the times you have spent with them...good and bad both.it won't take much time but you will realize something you haven't realized yet...and you don't really know whether you start feeling differently for a person or develop a different opinion towards a person....

Give it a thought:
Some special connections are unbreakable but those connections are hard to find and even if you find them don't ever lose them....

Dreams

Hey all,
Yes, today's topic is dreams..We all dream, mostly people dream at night but people daydream also. :P But on a serious note, I read somewhere that every night we get about 200 dreams out of which we only remember 2 or 3. But why do we dream? This question has always fascinated me. But firstly what are dreams? A dream is something like a story which we see every night in our head, It may be according to our wishes or against our wishes but no one can control their dreams...Our dreams are mostly linked to what is present in our subconscious mind. But sometimes it is what we fear most that occurs in our mind and comes in the form of a dream. A fearful dream is also called a nightmare which we may get and sometimes what we don't expect in our wildest imaginations comes in the form of a dream we give that dream the name of nightmare.....So all you out there don't forget to dream even of you get nightmares, they still balance your mind and sometimes actually give you a beautiful message...

Give it a thought :
When you feel differently for someone, don't take too long to react, because the longer it takes the more agitated you get...

Mixed....

Hey all 
What's up? I want you all to listen to the awesomely amazingly amazing totally rocking and rockstarish song
Its called " What makes you beautiful" by the band "One Direction" This is a song that touched my heart and all i have been doing ever since I listened to this song is listen to it again and again. 
The true meaning of this song is that You are Beautiful. very beautiful and everyone can see that but you which is why you are so beautiful....just try and think about how deep the meaning is and listen to the song and is you cant listen just read the lyrics...they are truly amazing and the song sung is even better. 
Enough of the song I guess...now that I have said so much you will surely listen to it :P

I was just thinking, normally when people chat they, come across this word "howz life" and some say life's gr8 some say life's horrible etc etc. but did you ever think what life really is..It got me thinking and I actually composed a poem on what life means to me...Here it goes:


Life is a Game,
A game where you cant always start again,
A game where you don't have 3 extra lives,
A game where time once gone can never come back,
A game where you can't always win,
A game where you make loads of mistakes,
A game where you get hurt,
A game you learn a lot from,
A game which you play all alone,
A game which strengthens and weakens you,
A game which never only involves a single person,
A game seeming impossible to play, yet we all play it.......


Give it a thought:

Doesn’t thinking about something continuously make you like that something….

A self composed peom

Hey all, 
I was so bored that I composed a poem...

Why did you do this to me?
Never will we fight, didn't we agree?
You made fake promises,
And left me in distress...
Never expected it from you,
Wish all of it could just undo..
You broke my trust, 
And left me in disgust..
I'm confused, I'm hurt,
Left all alone in a desert...
Just at they moment my heart stopped.
My respect for you dropped.
The tree of hatred grew in my head...
Over and over it happened,
But i didn't really mind!
Now I wish, all of it could just rewind.
It's really hard for me to move on 
For you this poem I have drawn...


Surabhi Agrawal 
Please do not copy this poem or use this poem anywhere all content on this blog is copyrighted. 

Give it a thought:
The harder the person is on the outside, the softer a person is on the inside.....

Phases of friendship b/w boy and girl

Hey all,
the two phases of friendship between a boy and a girl...
1.
Friendship starts
Friendship cares
Friendship loves
Friendship swears
Friendship fights
Friendship wears
Friendship tears and leaves you in total despair...

2. 
Friendship starts
Friendship cares
Friendship fights 
Friendship swears
Friendship loves and ultimately they become a pair.....


Give it a thought:
To lead a long lasting life, follow the three L's 
laugh
love
and
live 

sharing....

Sometimes telling someone what you feel and what exactly is happening in our life, kind of gives you joy and lessens your burden. Sometimes there are things which you think you need to share with someone but because nobody is there to hear you out, it all just piles up….people are very lucky to have siblings or even friends whom they can tell everything to and share stuff with......


Give it a Thought:
Connected to emotions are feelings, so if you play with people's emotions, you actually play with their feelings..... 

playing with words

Hey all,
I was just sitting and wondering and jotting down a few topics for my give it a thought and i came up with a few basic words that are the essence of life! and I tried to link them up so here they go..

1. education is to right
2. hard work is to success
3. authority is to responsibility
4. emotion is to feeling
5. trust is to relationship
6. friendship is to love
7. all the above is to life :D

Give it a thought:
A sacrifice doesn't always have to be loud, it can always be silent.....

what is love?

hey all, 
I often wonder about what love actually is and came to few conclusions, I asked my friends in school about what they think love means in just a sentence and here is the result 
Aditya: when friendship gets close, its called love...


Anandita: Love is what makes you laugh and love is what makes you cry..


Akriti: Love is an emotion which bonds each other in trust.....


Anup: When you are in Love, you do anything and everything for your love


Surabhi (me !): For me, Love is Friendship on fire....

So what do you think is love?


Give it a thought:
Our eyes are like a lake, in a lake we see our reflection and in our eyes people see our heart.........

after a long time...

Give it a thought:
People who hide their feelings are both strong and weak. Strong because they can hide their feelings and weak because they hide their feelings.......

Friendship..

Hey all, this post is really special for me and for you also, because I know you all love your friends...

Friendship, Friendship is one of the strongest bonds which according to every person is different. Friends give you a shoulder to cry upon, support you, play pranks on you, make fun of you, scream at you, but if someone else says anything against you then that person is toast! well this is what is called real friendship. One thing I have understood today is that friends are just really very hard to find. well, you find friends easily but not true friends easily...Fake friends, friends who pretend in front of you and to an extent you also pretend in front of them. So, a piece of advice, never try and become who your'e not, because everyone is special and everyone is different. Today I learnt that friends who become jealous on seeing your achievements and success are not your friends at all and maybe they are those closest friends of yours, who quite recently you called best friends..yes I have been through it, but it is important to understand and distinguish between reel and real friends....and its only because you never know what is going to happen next, which you might regret later...and to avoid regretting you should start questioning yourself. But this doesn't mean that all you friends are fake, as i said that there are people who are your true, real friends and that will always be with you forever....so here's to TRUE FRIENDSHIP....

Give it a thought:

You can never choose your relatives but always choose your friends........

Coincidences

Hey all 
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY, hope this friendship day is special for you and your friends.....
Earlier I wrote two thoughts under give it a thought based on coincidences...but I wonder if the message was clear enough or not. So here I am going to be explaining them and giving my opinion on coincidences.
1. Coincidences are not really coincidences, think of the coincidences you have had, maybe those coincidences were not really coincidences...
2. Maybe those coincidences which were not really coincidences were meant to make you realize something, which apparently you haven't realized yet.....
These were the two statements I wrote on coincidences, you must think that I am obsessed with coincidences but they just make me wonder why they happen and do they intend to give us a message. Most of the time we have coincidences with ourselves or relating to someone else but we don't really notice that, that coincidence was indicating something which we didn't understand which we should have understood...Coincidences could be any, and any and every coincidence could mean something...so, just think of the coincidences with whom you have had and give it a thought, and try and realize what they were meant to make you realize....

Keep smiling

Give it a thought:
By chance we meet, and by choice we become friends....

Opinion on a Give it a thought...

Give it a thought:

Everyone is unique, just find the unique quality, and maybe that’s the quality you admire most which that person possesses......

We all have some kind of hidden quality inside of us, and sometimes we ourselves don't know it. We dislike people and show hatred towards them but we don't see the hidden quality inside that person. For instance I like the quality of being honest but the person is shabby and untidy which is why I dislike the person, but really I don't see the quality of honesty inside the person even if that is the quality I admire most.....So the only message of this thought is that don't try and look for negative qualities but the positive and special qualities inside the person.......

Give it a thought on this particular thought....

Anger

Hey all, 
sorry for no posts yesterday, but to make it up 2 special posts for today! 

ANGER! what is anger? why do we feel angry? how do we feel angry? When do we feel angry? Before feeling angry none of us ask ourselves these questions, instead we just boil up. I myself am a short-tempered person and get angry quickly....but i was just thinking how does all this happen? We feel angry when we dislike something to such an extent that we can't tolerate the action any longer. Anger is an action we use to express for our strong dislike towards something or someone. But we don't seem to understand that nothing can go according to us in our way. We also feel angry when something or someone is wrong or when we are irritated. But irritation and feeling angry is something completely different although they are inter-linked. Coming back, is there actually a possible way to control our anger and stop it from overflowing? Yes there is, and one of the most popular, powerful and best exercise is to count till 100 and take deep breaths, after which you will see your anger vanish away...Don't believe me? Try it the next time and see if it makes a difference.One type of anger is an instinctual reaction to being trapped or hurt. Another type is a reaction to the perception of being intentionally harmed or mistreated by others. The third type of anger, which includes irritability, reflects an individual's personal character traits. 


Some people when angry, either control it and sit quietly without saying a word or two, some burst out and say every possible thing against it. 
Sometimes getting angry is also good for our system and our mind but letting our anger out on others is definitely the worst thing to do which almost all of us do, so try not to get angry and keep smiling....


Give it a thought
To every problem, there is a solution, just find the reason behind the problem and you will surely find the solution....

Apologizing...

There are many emotions, any we deal with at least 10-15 emotions a day, one such emotion which is apologizing is one of the most crucial, important and difficult emotion one goes through. Saying sorry is not a difficult job, it is just a word to accept your mistake and to assure the person you hurt that you won't repeat the mistake again. Many of us, commit mistakes and quarrel with our best friends but how many of us actually realise our mistake. And if we actually realise our mistake do we really apologize or not? Saying sorry requires guts and strength especially when you commit a huge mistake and the person is hurt very badly. 
But from my experience saying sorry, actually lightens you up, and lessens the guilt feeling inside you if you are actually apologizing truly from your heart. So for those of you who say sorry, I am sure you agree with me. For those of you who don't apologize even if its your fault..its not a difficult job, and if it really is your fault I feel you must apologize....
So keep smiling....

Give it a Thought
With each sunrise breathes daylight, with each morning begins a new journey and with each meeting begins a new friendship......

Friendship Day

Hey all,

I am sure you all are excited! Friendship Day is coming and I am sure all of you have made your cards and bought your friendship bands. So I am sure all of you are planning to make this friendship day special for all your friends. So here's a quiz for you so that you know what kind of friend you are and if you want you could also try it out on your best friends..But wait until you finish the quiz then see the answers. You can after finishing rate the quiz and post comments..

Thank you

Q1. When you make a mistake, do you apologize to your best friend?

A.   No

B.    Yes

C.    Sometimes

Q2. When its your best friend’s birthday, when do you wish them?

A.   Whenever  I get time

B.    At 12:00

C.    When I wake up

Q3. Do you spread believe rumours about your best friends?

A.   Yes

B.    No

C.    Sometimes if the person is convincing

Q4. Do you share your secrets and true feelings with your best friend?

A.   Yes

B.    No

C.    Never

Q5. Do you think you and your best friend are really best friends

A.   Yes

B.    No

C.    Obviously

OKAY! Ready for the results?

Q1 If you have chosen

A.   That means you are selfish and only care about yourself

B.    That means you realize your mistake and really do feel sorry

C.    That means you still need to work on your friendship

Q2. If you have chosen

A.   That means you are casual and don’t care

B.    That means you love your best friend

C.    That means you still need to work on your friendship

Q3. If you have chosen

A.   That means you don’t trust your best friend

B.    That means you trust your best friend completely

C.    That means you still need to work on your friendship

Q4. If you have chosen

A.   That means you and your best friend are close

B.    That means you and your best friend are not close enough

C.    That means you still need to work on your friendship

Q5 If you have chosen

A.   That means you are best friends

B.    That means you are definitely not best friends

C.    That means you are definitely best friends

So if you have chosen,

Q1. B

Q2. B

Q3. B

Q4. A

Q5. C

YOU and YOUR best friend are the best of friends…..                                    

 GIVE IT A THOUGHT:

Coincidences which were not really coincidences were meant to make you realise something which apparently you haven't realised yet.....

About My Blog...

Hey all, 

Welcome to the world of expression, emotion and empathy. This blog is basically about feelings and thoughts. Before going ahead, let me introduce myself, my name is Surabhi and I am a 14 year old girl! and in this blog I will, sharing few of my experiences, lessons learnt and most of all I want all you bloggers and followers to actually give it a thought...Give It a Thought will be one of the special parts of my blog, it is basically a thought which I will be writing at the end, this thought would be original and would require you to think a little. Most of my thoughts will be based on personal experience. A thought a day keeps the counsellor away! Apart from my and thoughts my blog will also include teenage life tips so regarding any issue, you can always post a comment or write me an e-mail to surabhi7rp2@gmail.com . I would really appreciate solving your problems so don’t hesitate on asking for any sort of advice. “Expression” is just the actions of what you think and feel, into words. “Emotion” without emotion you can’t express anything so it is essential for you to have emotions and care about others as well. “Empathy” is the ability to understand someone else’s feelings and share it.

 So this is all about my blog! Once again, keep posting your comments and queries.

Thank you

Surabhi 

Give It a Thought...

Coincidences are not really coincidences, think of the coincidences you have had, maybe those coincidences were not really coincidences....