playing with words

Hey all,
I was just sitting and wondering and jotting down a few topics for my give it a thought and i came up with a few basic words that are the essence of life! and I tried to link them up so here they go..

1. education is to right
2. hard work is to success
3. authority is to responsibility
4. emotion is to feeling
5. trust is to relationship
6. friendship is to love
7. all the above is to life :D

Give it a thought:
A sacrifice doesn't always have to be loud, it can always be silent.....

what is love?

hey all, 
I often wonder about what love actually is and came to few conclusions, I asked my friends in school about what they think love means in just a sentence and here is the result 
Aditya: when friendship gets close, its called love...


Anandita: Love is what makes you laugh and love is what makes you cry..


Akriti: Love is an emotion which bonds each other in trust.....


Anup: When you are in Love, you do anything and everything for your love


Surabhi (me !): For me, Love is Friendship on fire....

So what do you think is love?


Give it a thought:
Our eyes are like a lake, in a lake we see our reflection and in our eyes people see our heart.........

after a long time...

Give it a thought:
People who hide their feelings are both strong and weak. Strong because they can hide their feelings and weak because they hide their feelings.......

Friendship..

Hey all, this post is really special for me and for you also, because I know you all love your friends...

Friendship, Friendship is one of the strongest bonds which according to every person is different. Friends give you a shoulder to cry upon, support you, play pranks on you, make fun of you, scream at you, but if someone else says anything against you then that person is toast! well this is what is called real friendship. One thing I have understood today is that friends are just really very hard to find. well, you find friends easily but not true friends easily...Fake friends, friends who pretend in front of you and to an extent you also pretend in front of them. So, a piece of advice, never try and become who your'e not, because everyone is special and everyone is different. Today I learnt that friends who become jealous on seeing your achievements and success are not your friends at all and maybe they are those closest friends of yours, who quite recently you called best friends..yes I have been through it, but it is important to understand and distinguish between reel and real friends....and its only because you never know what is going to happen next, which you might regret later...and to avoid regretting you should start questioning yourself. But this doesn't mean that all you friends are fake, as i said that there are people who are your true, real friends and that will always be with you forever....so here's to TRUE FRIENDSHIP....

Give it a thought:

You can never choose your relatives but always choose your friends........

Coincidences

Hey all 
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY, hope this friendship day is special for you and your friends.....
Earlier I wrote two thoughts under give it a thought based on coincidences...but I wonder if the message was clear enough or not. So here I am going to be explaining them and giving my opinion on coincidences.
1. Coincidences are not really coincidences, think of the coincidences you have had, maybe those coincidences were not really coincidences...
2. Maybe those coincidences which were not really coincidences were meant to make you realize something, which apparently you haven't realized yet.....
These were the two statements I wrote on coincidences, you must think that I am obsessed with coincidences but they just make me wonder why they happen and do they intend to give us a message. Most of the time we have coincidences with ourselves or relating to someone else but we don't really notice that, that coincidence was indicating something which we didn't understand which we should have understood...Coincidences could be any, and any and every coincidence could mean something...so, just think of the coincidences with whom you have had and give it a thought, and try and realize what they were meant to make you realize....

Keep smiling

Give it a thought:
By chance we meet, and by choice we become friends....

Opinion on a Give it a thought...

Give it a thought:

Everyone is unique, just find the unique quality, and maybe that’s the quality you admire most which that person possesses......

We all have some kind of hidden quality inside of us, and sometimes we ourselves don't know it. We dislike people and show hatred towards them but we don't see the hidden quality inside that person. For instance I like the quality of being honest but the person is shabby and untidy which is why I dislike the person, but really I don't see the quality of honesty inside the person even if that is the quality I admire most.....So the only message of this thought is that don't try and look for negative qualities but the positive and special qualities inside the person.......

Give it a thought on this particular thought....

Anger

Hey all, 
sorry for no posts yesterday, but to make it up 2 special posts for today! 

ANGER! what is anger? why do we feel angry? how do we feel angry? When do we feel angry? Before feeling angry none of us ask ourselves these questions, instead we just boil up. I myself am a short-tempered person and get angry quickly....but i was just thinking how does all this happen? We feel angry when we dislike something to such an extent that we can't tolerate the action any longer. Anger is an action we use to express for our strong dislike towards something or someone. But we don't seem to understand that nothing can go according to us in our way. We also feel angry when something or someone is wrong or when we are irritated. But irritation and feeling angry is something completely different although they are inter-linked. Coming back, is there actually a possible way to control our anger and stop it from overflowing? Yes there is, and one of the most popular, powerful and best exercise is to count till 100 and take deep breaths, after which you will see your anger vanish away...Don't believe me? Try it the next time and see if it makes a difference.One type of anger is an instinctual reaction to being trapped or hurt. Another type is a reaction to the perception of being intentionally harmed or mistreated by others. The third type of anger, which includes irritability, reflects an individual's personal character traits. 


Some people when angry, either control it and sit quietly without saying a word or two, some burst out and say every possible thing against it. 
Sometimes getting angry is also good for our system and our mind but letting our anger out on others is definitely the worst thing to do which almost all of us do, so try not to get angry and keep smiling....


Give it a thought
To every problem, there is a solution, just find the reason behind the problem and you will surely find the solution....

Apologizing...

There are many emotions, any we deal with at least 10-15 emotions a day, one such emotion which is apologizing is one of the most crucial, important and difficult emotion one goes through. Saying sorry is not a difficult job, it is just a word to accept your mistake and to assure the person you hurt that you won't repeat the mistake again. Many of us, commit mistakes and quarrel with our best friends but how many of us actually realise our mistake. And if we actually realise our mistake do we really apologize or not? Saying sorry requires guts and strength especially when you commit a huge mistake and the person is hurt very badly. 
But from my experience saying sorry, actually lightens you up, and lessens the guilt feeling inside you if you are actually apologizing truly from your heart. So for those of you who say sorry, I am sure you agree with me. For those of you who don't apologize even if its your fault..its not a difficult job, and if it really is your fault I feel you must apologize....
So keep smiling....

Give it a Thought
With each sunrise breathes daylight, with each morning begins a new journey and with each meeting begins a new friendship......

Friendship Day

Hey all,

I am sure you all are excited! Friendship Day is coming and I am sure all of you have made your cards and bought your friendship bands. So I am sure all of you are planning to make this friendship day special for all your friends. So here's a quiz for you so that you know what kind of friend you are and if you want you could also try it out on your best friends..But wait until you finish the quiz then see the answers. You can after finishing rate the quiz and post comments..

Thank you

Q1. When you make a mistake, do you apologize to your best friend?

A.   No

B.    Yes

C.    Sometimes

Q2. When its your best friend’s birthday, when do you wish them?

A.   Whenever  I get time

B.    At 12:00

C.    When I wake up

Q3. Do you spread believe rumours about your best friends?

A.   Yes

B.    No

C.    Sometimes if the person is convincing

Q4. Do you share your secrets and true feelings with your best friend?

A.   Yes

B.    No

C.    Never

Q5. Do you think you and your best friend are really best friends

A.   Yes

B.    No

C.    Obviously

OKAY! Ready for the results?

Q1 If you have chosen

A.   That means you are selfish and only care about yourself

B.    That means you realize your mistake and really do feel sorry

C.    That means you still need to work on your friendship

Q2. If you have chosen

A.   That means you are casual and don’t care

B.    That means you love your best friend

C.    That means you still need to work on your friendship

Q3. If you have chosen

A.   That means you don’t trust your best friend

B.    That means you trust your best friend completely

C.    That means you still need to work on your friendship

Q4. If you have chosen

A.   That means you and your best friend are close

B.    That means you and your best friend are not close enough

C.    That means you still need to work on your friendship

Q5 If you have chosen

A.   That means you are best friends

B.    That means you are definitely not best friends

C.    That means you are definitely best friends

So if you have chosen,

Q1. B

Q2. B

Q3. B

Q4. A

Q5. C

YOU and YOUR best friend are the best of friends…..                                    

 GIVE IT A THOUGHT:

Coincidences which were not really coincidences were meant to make you realise something which apparently you haven't realised yet.....

About My Blog...

Hey all, 

Welcome to the world of expression, emotion and empathy. This blog is basically about feelings and thoughts. Before going ahead, let me introduce myself, my name is Surabhi and I am a 14 year old girl! and in this blog I will, sharing few of my experiences, lessons learnt and most of all I want all you bloggers and followers to actually give it a thought...Give It a Thought will be one of the special parts of my blog, it is basically a thought which I will be writing at the end, this thought would be original and would require you to think a little. Most of my thoughts will be based on personal experience. A thought a day keeps the counsellor away! Apart from my and thoughts my blog will also include teenage life tips so regarding any issue, you can always post a comment or write me an e-mail to surabhi7rp2@gmail.com . I would really appreciate solving your problems so don’t hesitate on asking for any sort of advice. “Expression” is just the actions of what you think and feel, into words. “Emotion” without emotion you can’t express anything so it is essential for you to have emotions and care about others as well. “Empathy” is the ability to understand someone else’s feelings and share it.

 So this is all about my blog! Once again, keep posting your comments and queries.

Thank you

Surabhi 

Give It a Thought...

Coincidences are not really coincidences, think of the coincidences you have had, maybe those coincidences were not really coincidences....