Hey all,
Today's topic is mutual understanding...every relationship requires a different type and level of understanding. But understanding is definitely required...especially with your closest friends....and by mutual understanding I mean understanding between two people so that they can discuss their problems openly instead of telling others about it...for eg. if two friends are in a tiff then they should sort is out and discuss their problems openly, instead of getting to know about the problems from other people..and if there is no mutual understanding the friendship won't last, personally I have experienced this so if you voice a different opinion of your friends let them know about it, because if they get to know from others, they would be completely shattered...and if your relationship is special and of value to you then, hold on to it, but not tightly, and don't stretch it because it may break...
Surabhi
Today's topic is mutual understanding...every relationship requires a different type and level of understanding. But understanding is definitely required...especially with your closest friends....and by mutual understanding I mean understanding between two people so that they can discuss their problems openly instead of telling others about it...for eg. if two friends are in a tiff then they should sort is out and discuss their problems openly, instead of getting to know about the problems from other people..and if there is no mutual understanding the friendship won't last, personally I have experienced this so if you voice a different opinion of your friends let them know about it, because if they get to know from others, they would be completely shattered...and if your relationship is special and of value to you then, hold on to it, but not tightly, and don't stretch it because it may break...
Surabhi
no i really dont agree with you specially on this subject
ReplyDeletewell my opinion is that not everyone has the power and ability to share their problems with those whom they have the problem with
its like if a person has a problem with his /her best frnd then hundreds of questions arise in his mind as to if he should tell the person of their problems or not
if hey tells them, then he may fear of losing the frndship forever,
if he doesnt tell the problems....... welll that will create a big problem for himself
so what does he choose
he chooses to tell the problem to someone who is as near to his best frnd as he is..... expecting that person to tell the accused person of their charges in a sweet and kind way
in this way he retains his frndship and also the frnds get to know their problems
now obviously he wouldnt go around telling his problems to everyone
only one such frnd like a true frnd (which was only shivangi and me in addu's case) can be relied for such communication
thus it is not bad or wrong for a person having problem with another to tell a third (and only that third person) his problems whom he knows will tell them to the accused.
well this is my personal experience as i would like to tell all those who are reading my comment that i am a very shy person myself and cannot express my emotions so openly and this has actually happened in my life..... well so long then!!!!!!!!!!
Exactly my point, if their is mutual understanding then these kind of questions won't arise in his/her mind...and there is no need to involve a third person because in many relationships you cannot guarantee their is a third person and if there is then,you can't trust the person completely...it is not wrong for a a person to share his/her problems with others but if it is a about a particular person then he should have the courage to tell the actual person...
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