Hey all,
Accepting something you haven't expected in your wildest dreams is not an easy job..because you never hoped for it to happen in the first place. And its normal, but the challenge is to accept it, it will take time but never the less if it has happened then learn to accept it and move on. Acceptance is the key to most important decisions and acceptance and rejection is a very major and important part of life....and that is called change!
Sometimes, in our lives we experience change and at the teen stage it is quite common to be confused as to what change is right or wrong, or why that change is happening and if it is happening then is it good or bad ! At times you feel that everything has changed and it is never like it was before, people have changed, you have made new friends and this new environment is completely different compared to what is was before, but I guess its like, as we grow we change , our taste changes, our choices change, our friend circle changes, and moreover our interests change, but that is change is common with everyone and every teen is a part of it and sometimes that change proves to be very useful and helpful. But the question is how to decide whether the change is good or bad and is it right or wrong....
After a lot of brainstorming :P... I think the one and only way to identify it, firstly you need to identify the change in yourself and your environment before you can decide if the change is good or bad.
After you have decided and identified the change then just TRY and imagine your life, before that change came into being...............and after you have imagined your life without the change, TRY and imagine your life with that change.
After imagining both....try and analyse....think whether your life with the change was better or without the change is better and you will automatically know whether the change is good or bad...
TRY it out
It will work....
Surabhi...
Accepting something you haven't expected in your wildest dreams is not an easy job..because you never hoped for it to happen in the first place. And its normal, but the challenge is to accept it, it will take time but never the less if it has happened then learn to accept it and move on. Acceptance is the key to most important decisions and acceptance and rejection is a very major and important part of life....and that is called change!
Sometimes, in our lives we experience change and at the teen stage it is quite common to be confused as to what change is right or wrong, or why that change is happening and if it is happening then is it good or bad ! At times you feel that everything has changed and it is never like it was before, people have changed, you have made new friends and this new environment is completely different compared to what is was before, but I guess its like, as we grow we change , our taste changes, our choices change, our friend circle changes, and moreover our interests change, but that is change is common with everyone and every teen is a part of it and sometimes that change proves to be very useful and helpful. But the question is how to decide whether the change is good or bad and is it right or wrong....
After a lot of brainstorming :P... I think the one and only way to identify it, firstly you need to identify the change in yourself and your environment before you can decide if the change is good or bad.
After you have decided and identified the change then just TRY and imagine your life, before that change came into being...............and after you have imagined your life without the change, TRY and imagine your life with that change.
After imagining both....try and analyse....think whether your life with the change was better or without the change is better and you will automatically know whether the change is good or bad...
TRY it out
It will work....
Surabhi...
hey surabhi really good blog yaar.....change toh bahutzaroori hai....ya i noe............anyways i really envy you itna accha blog wid cool followers wah yaar.seriously all my frnds including my tution teacher said that it was wonderful!!!!..i wanna make a blog too....but for that i need a google acccount..shou;d i make one...parents ko kaise bataoon
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