Wednesday 5 October 2011

Decisions part 2

Hey all, 
Yup, today's topic is decisions..I know what you are thinking that I have already written a long and lengthy post on decisions but this post is just another sequel. Firstly I want all those of you who like happy ending movies and love love stories to watch the movie "a cinderella story" if you haven't watched it...its an old movie but its definitely a must watch :P and the songs are just superbly fantastic and fabulously amazing.... :P

Yeah, coming back to decisions, my earlier post gave you a good message on decisions and briefed you up well perhaps, but this post is just based on a little more elaboration :P 
Sometimes in life when we make our decisions, whatever decision it may be and whatever kind of decision it may be, we must be sure that those decisions shouldn't be such that they cause you to break your decision. Only promise yourself about making the decisions if you are ready to take on the challenge of carrying them out and that you won't leave them in between. And since we all know that just as one path leads to another path, one decision leads to several other decisions which we might have to take considering the circumstances. So while dealing with an issue and making its decisions you must make sure your decision is right, because it shouldn't be that you made the wrong choice and because of that one choice you made, you have to suffer all your life. The solution to stop this from happening is that before taking a decision make sure that what you are doing is right and if you want you could consult your parents or your "true" best friends because they would never want what is wrong for you...trust me !
Taking decisions for someone, is not something I would recommend because, every person should know what is best for them and unless a person makes mistakes a person can never learn...but those mistakes shouldn't cause devastation or destruction so this is when you need to take advice.
Taking a decision with someone could also be done provided that someone supports your decision because no one wants to be forced, just like no one wants to get into forced friendship or forced relationship. 
Taking a decision for you which includes people should not really be against the people, it could affect them but it should not harm them, they could probably hurt them but only if the decision is very essential. 
Taking a decision for someone you know, like or love can also be taken again provided that the person is comfortable with your decision and if you want to surprise that person then please go ahead, but try as much as you can to take decisions positively for people and for yourself.....



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